A Message for Tommy
Tommy,
I met you about 5 years ago when you taught a couple of .NET classes that I attended in Atlanta. I only saw you for a few days, but you impressed me as such a genuinely nice person; in addition to being so very competent in your chosen profession. Because of your explanation of what Three Will stood for, I was very interested in what you were doing. I followed your company for a while and then lost touch, as we often do.
I was on the MS Groove 2007 Forums and saw a link to your blogs regarding the use of Groove. I went to check it out and there I discovered what you and your family have been going through over the last six months. I only wish I had come across this earlier so that I could have offered up prayers for you and your family as you went through this period of challenge and growth in your lives.
As Nicole C. Mullen so aptly put it…I know my Redeemer Lives…Because I spoke with him this morning.
…and my prayer will be that God redeems the time spent in this treatment in ways that only HE can and that your family will be closer and stronger for it.
I will continue to track your progress. It is very apparent that you have a strong support network, but if you need anything, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
Cliff Hammock
Chair Emeritus
Mabel White Memorial Baptist Church
Macon, Georgia
www.mabelwhite.org
Hello Tommy !
Just read your post and glad things are gradually
working back to normal. I’m very proud of you and
look forward to our next StarBuck’s coffee !
God bless you and your entire family,
Love,
Jason
Looking Good!
Hi- School is out, so that means I have more time to surf the net! A less stringent schedule…more time to goof off and take what life brings us! We pray for you each night and the boys wanted an update on how you were doing. I guess the best news is that you are a SURVIVOR and can spend some great times at MD Anderson with your new friends. I’m sure you’ll never know how many lives you touched because inspiring one person is enough. I admire your courage and faithfulness.
Today, June 5, is our second anniversary of moving to Carmel. I yearn for the hot, Southern nights, dear friends, and mountain ranges, but until I can persuade Chuck to be a professor at Clemson:), I’ll just have to appreciate the IN sunsets and less congested lifestyle of Carmel.
Give our love to Linda and the kids. Keep up the blog as we are all interested in the continued success of your treatment.
Just found out that Midland, MI has a minor league baseball team with some over-the-top stadium! We’ll email you a photo of your old stomping grounds if we make it there!
GBY!
The IN Hansens
Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer Romans 12:12
Hi Tommy
Just checking in on your journey and thinking of you. Lots of love for the big week and month ahead from your cousins.
Donna
YEH!
Hi- Just checking in and saw the awesome news! Truly miraculous! I have passed your blog onto a family in South Bend who is going on his third occurrence on non-Hodgkins. His sister is going to be the stem cell donor. I’m hoping your blog will offer them some insight and hope.
Did not enjoy the Clemson game, but had a Hansen 3-victory in the house, Carl, Evan, and Jack. It was the first win for Carl-long awaited and well-deserved.
Chuck is avidly job hunting….we’ll let you know what changes….I haven’t even stripped all the wall paper yet!
We hope all is well. I think Alex is in High school now? Say hi to everyone and GO COLTS!
Mary
Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer Romans 12:12
Remember the Alamo
Whenever you want extra dessert in a TX hospital, whisper to the hospital employee, “Remember the Alamo” and they will super size your meal…jk. Tom – I look forward to seeing you soon. Let me know if I can bring anything from home to may your stay more comfortable. You continue to amaze us with your strength!
Love, BR
More Texas advice… Your attitude is amazing Tommy and I am grateful to God for how your doing. I will say extra prayers that stem cell infusion goes well.
On a lighter note, in addition to “Remember the Alamo” is
“Dame otro Tequila” == “Give me another Tequila”
“agarrar al toro por los cuernos”== ”to grab the bull by the horns”
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Happy Birthday!
Happy Birthday To You.
Happy Birthday To You.
Happy Birthday Dear Tommy.
Happy Birthday To You. (See me singing)
Use your imagination and picture us all there with you and a birthday cake today!
This is the birth of the next chapter of your life, as your healthy stem cells are re-implanted to give you new life.
Your positive thoughts, trust in God, and persistent effort has brought you to this happy day.
Rejoice and Be Glad,
Mom Melear
Happy Birthday!! 
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Tommy~
We are so very happy for you, and grateful that your treatment journey has gone so well!
Here’s to many, many more years of life, laughter, & love…and now TWO birthdays to celebrate every year!
Take care and know that we are praying for & thinking of you, Linda, & the kids:o)
Hugs, Love, & God Bless~
Becky, Tom, Charlotte, & Eli
from the Gambles
Tommy
We are in daily prayer for you. We are so encouraged by your posts.
I truly believe you are glorifying God by your words and actions during
this time of trial.
You are not alone. God has angels watching over you (Daniel 6) and His
hand upholds you.
Best wishes, Tommy. Our love to the family.
Karen & Pete Gamble, Becky & John
in Raleigh, NC
Happy Bday
Tommy So great to see you surrounded by bday presents and a big smile on this big
day.
We are all thinking of you and pulling for you on “the outside.”
You and Linda have worked so hard this week. Get a good rest now for the
next leg.
In the Ryan tradition:
Many of them to you,
Many of them to you,
Many of them dear Tommy,
Many of them to you!
Love and prayers,
Donna
do-rag
Hello Tommy,
The side affects sound miserable, but your attitude is inspiring.
Sense-of-humor is great, like the do-rag…it should go good with your new tattoo, motorcycle, and the WW I helmet I have for you ;}
Take care Tommy, rest well, and if Linda needs help with anything with your home, just ask her to call me!
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Happy Bday
Tommy Hi, Tommy and Family,
So great to see you surrounded by birthday presents and a big smile on this day.
We are all thinking of you on the “outside.”
In the Ryan tradition, I want to add:
Many of them to you,
Many of them to you,
Many of them dear Tommy,
Many of them to you!
A grand celebration day. You go, boy! Take a deep breath and savor all your hard work to get you here.
Looking forward to the photos of you and Deanna wearing surgical masks with homedrawn mustaches…
Love,
Donna
Prayers
Hello Tommy,
As always, you, Linda, and children continue to be in my daily prayers and I hope side-affects are minimal while you rest.
In Christ,
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
re Day +6
Hi Tommy, We think about you every day and we read your blog, review the pics and check out the Team in Training every day. We are with you especially during these next couple of challenging days and have every confidence in your medical team, and Linda especially.
Love Rob, Gretchen, Brian and RaeAnn
Prayers for your comfort today
Hello Tommy,
Extra prayers are being said for you today as you go thru what has to feel miserable, but all of us are with you in spirit and asking God
to comfort you as you recover.
In Christ,
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Glad to read your post !
Hello Tommy !
Very happy to read your post and hear the good
results! Liked the new funny fotos too!
Take care and we’ll talk soon!
Your friend always,
Jason
Hang In There!
Tommy~
Sounds like you’re on the upswing now, your attitude & determination, as well as that of you caregivers is to be celebrated….”Happiness is celebrating the little things”:o) You, Linda, the kids, & the entire “Tommy Team” are on the minds & in the hearts of many, and will be for a long time to come. Keep up the great progress and always remember: “Wherever tomorrow takes you, God will meet you there.”
Take care:o)
~Becky, Tom, Charlotte, & Eli
Happy Valentine’s Day, Tommy
Today’s the day we pause to celebrate all the love in our lives!
You ARE LOVED by so many people, Tommy.
May that love give you STRENGTH, WARMTH and PATIENCE
Today and throughout all of February.
With a hug and prayer,
Mom Melear
Great News!
Tom – I am thrilled to hear about the white blood cell count increasing! We will have to toast to that when I come in two weeks. I will start research bars online.
BR
Way to Go!
Tommy – Just wanted to let you know we think of you and the family often. I enjoy readying your updates. I’m so very proud of you. Enjoy your visit with Linda and Alex – I know that are anxious to spend time with you.
Chris, Gale & Rachel Weeks
Way To Go !!!
Hello Tommy,
Just arrived back from Florida and read your post ! I
am so glad to hear that, and grateful to God for being
with you!
Can’t wait to see you !
Jason
V for VICTORY!
Hi Tommy,
We did our training FOR YOU today – Danny and Amy did 20 miles and report that it went well. Then they went to your parents’ home to pick up Kailey and SHE did well overnight with her grandparents.
I did 10 miles and am now is “double digits”, came home to an Epsom Salts bath, napped and here I am – fine.
As I read your blog, I visualized a V for Victory. You hit bottom this week and are now of the upswing!
You’re getting better now and soon will be to the next milestone. What a good job you’ve been doing!
Tomorrow Linda and Alex arrive – that’ll give you energy!
Thoughts and prayers,
Mom Melear
You are winning again
Tommy,
I’m both humbled and inspired to witness in your daily journey an overwhelming motivation to overcome the very present adversity of cancer. Your family also exhibits such strength and courage as their love rallies you back to good health! Continue looking up as it is already quite evident that God has favored you to be sharpened like iron with iron and purified as gold is with fire. You are winning and God is using you to bless many now and even more in the future.
Our family’s prayers for you and yours,
James A
Psalm 62
Hi Tommy,
Just read your blog and was so inspired by your faith and courage. Psalm 62 came to mind. Just wanted to share it with you as you start your day.
The Palazzo family continues to remember you and your entire family in prayer. Our small faith group is praying for you as well as intentions that continue to be offered in our church’s Eucharistic Adoration chapel.
Psalm 62
For God alone my soul waits in silence,
for my hope is from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation,
my fortress; I shall not be shaken.
On God rests my deliverance and my honor;
my mighty rock, my refuge is in God.
Trust in him at all times, O people;
pour out your heart before him;
God is a refuge for us.
May God’s peace which is beyond all telling and imagining be with you and Linda today!
Lynn and Rob Palazzo
Faith
Hello Tommy !
I couldn’t agree more with the previous message, I am also inspired by your faith and courage.
You (and family) are in my twice daily prayers and those of my parents.
Take care,
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Great news – congrats!
Tommy,
I just went through the past several postings on your blog and wanted to officially congratulate you on your birthday and outstanding progress! You and Linda are in my prayers daily.
Keep up the good work!
Jason Jones
Director
We’re keeping track!
Hi, Tommy! Just wanted you to know that your friends at Boys & Girls Clubs are following your progress and sending thoughts and prayers your way!
Linda M. Wiltse
Vice President, Program & Youth Development Services
sounds good
I talked with Joe and Rose Marie and things sound wonderful. Mom is headed to Hosuton on Wednesday. I am on no fly b/c on throat thing so I have not seen you in Houston but you seemed to have it down well. Think of you and Linda often. Good luck at home. Know you will be glad to see kids.
kim p wolfe
With you in spirit
Hello Tommy !
Thinking about you and keeping you in my daily prayers. I admire your courage more than I could ever describe with words.
Talk to you soon!!!
Your Only Java Developer Friend ;-}}
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, Cingular Wireless,
IT eCommerce/Payments,
QuickPay, AutoPay, Wedat, Cingular Java Components,
Hi
Tommy and family,
Deanna informed me of your recent condition via email. We are praying for you and your family at this time. May 2007 be a year of blessings for you all.
Most sincerely,
K. Leann Yoda Blackburn
Prayers for a good week
Hello Tommy,
As week begins, you and your entire family will continue to be in my prayers. I pray for your complete and full recovery and know God is with you during this very difficult time.
As before, please let me know if there is anything I can do to help your family here.
Take care Tommy, I’m with you !
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, Cingular Wireless,
IT eCommerce/Payments,
QuickPay, AutoPay, Wedat, Cingular Java Components,
To Tommy, Linda and kids
I am so sorry to hear about the difficult struggle you’re going through, but please know so many people are praying for you. I hope you can take some comfort in the fact that while suffering is painful and scary, it can also bring you closer to God and your loved ones– as well as make you appreciate all the blessings you do have. I will keep you in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Kathleen O’Connor Conway (Sheila’s sister)
You are in our prayers
Tommy,
Thanks to Danny for sending me the link to your blog. Please know that you and your family are in the prayers of your friends at Boys & Girls Clubs of America. There are many questions we will have for God when we are finally with Him. Why we go through things like this will certainly be on my list of questions. But until then, our assurance will continue to be the words of Hebrews 13:5b …”I will never leave you nor forsake you”. Keep the faith.
Lew Miller
Hello from NY
Tommy,
You are in our prayers morning and night. Rudy says that you are very handsome with your new haircut, because you look like daddy now. We have been keeping up with your blog and praise God for each baby step. I will never forget your kindness when I was in the hospital and those homemade muffins. I wish we were closer but we are just a plane ride away. Hugs and kisses to Linda and the kids! Thank you for keeping us up to speed with your journey. YOU ARE AMAZING!
Love,
Jean Bohm
The Meads family is thinking of You!
Tom -
Staci, Taylor, Lindsay and I are thinking of you guys, and will keep you in our prayers. Like last time, I know you
will come through this ordeal well, whole and smiling.
Please let me know if we can help in any way, and I will continue to monitor the site to check your progress.
Very best regards,
Bob Meads
iQuest, inc.
Waves of prayer and love
Tommy, Linda et al – As the New Year unfolds, you are still, continually, on my mind and in my prayers. You need to know that our parish’s present RCIA group (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) has taken you on as a special prayer project. Each Monday at the end of the session, they say a special prayer and mention you. They are also asking the intercession of the saints, and hoping that Fr. Isaac Hecker, the founder of the Paulist Fathers, whose cause for sainthood is just getting started, will be part of this great communion of prayer, along with all of us here. May the God of all love surround you with the peace of Christ Jesus!
With warmth and affection, Fr. Joe
Rev. Joseph A. Ciccone, CSP
Immaculate Conception Church
Wishes and Prayers For Speedy Recovery
Hello Tommy,
You and your entire family continue to be in my prayers and I am confident you’ll get thru this fine.
Monique asked for link to your blog and she told me how impressed she was with your outlook and attitude during this challenging time.
Thanks for sharing apartment fotos, they look nice.
Take care Tommy, I’m with you today in spirit !
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, Cingular Wireless
IT eCommerce/Payments(QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT)
You are a wonderful witness
Just a quick message – to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Tommy, in your blog, your words of praise for the Lord during these difficult times are moving and inspiring. I would venture to guess God finds our praise of Him during the trying times more precious than in the good times. How proud God was of his servant Job. You are a wonderful witness to us all. “The lips of the righteous feed many: but fools die for want of wisdom. Proverbs 10:21″
For some reason today I felt moved to share my favorite Bible verse with you – one I have treasured from childhood. I have always found comfort in the knowledge that I am the one that He left the 99 to find, and that He watches over me with an amazing Love. And that no matter what dark valley I walk down, He is with me and guiding me.
Psalm 23: The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Yours,
Alan, Kerry, Shannon, Trey, and Drew
Another message from Danny and Amy’s Team
Hi Tommy-
Like Angela, I am a teammate of Danny and Amy on the Northside Team in Training. Danny did a great job telling us your story last Saturday, and I really found your blog inspiring.
I was diagnosed with kidney cancer in 2004, but they were able to get it all through surgery, and I didn’t have to undergo chemo or radiation. I was incredibly lucky.
Best of luck on your treatment, and I hope you get back to your family in Atlanta soon. I hope that the small stuff we are doing at TNT can make a dent in curing this disease. Please know that you will be in our family’s prayers. Take care.
Phil Kleiber
Senior National Sales Executive
Coca-Cola North America FoodService
You are in my thoughts
Dear Tommy,
I am not sure how much you remember me. I worked at EL and another Ph. D Like you. I strongly believe in the strength of Prayer. I will Visit our Temple and do special Prayer for you and Your family. You are an inspiration to all of us.
God Bless you and Your Family.
Durga
Dear Tommy
I read the messages from your friends and the updates on your daily
progress and realize how strong your faith and your will are as you go
through each day. You know how much I admire both you and Danny, always
have. I know God’s love is with you and your beautiful family. I will
continue to keep you in my prayers and look forward to the day you have
your health restored.
Your friend,
Stacy
Keep up the Great Progress!
Just a note to say Congrats on what sounds like a very successful end of the week:o) Glad to hear that there’s no infection, and hope that you & your Dad can make the long awaited trip home soon. Have a safe trip whenever you’re able to leave, enjoy your family & time at home, and know that you’ve got a huge group of fans praying and cheering for you, Linda, Alex, Madeline, & Austin, et.al. Imagine all of us doing the “wave” in a virtual Clemson Stadium for you guys:o) Prayers, blessings, and hugs to all of you!
Take Care & God Bless,
~Becky, Tom, Charlotte, & Eli Schuerman
Praying for you in tough decision
Hello Tommy,
Just short note to tell you I’ll pray for you in
making a difficult decision for your treatment.
Always remember, God and all of us are with you!!
In Christ,
Jason
Message from Father Joe
Tommy, Linda – You need to know that a young woman from my Parish in Knoxville has also just been diagnosed with Hodgkins. Dana Karnowski is 35 yrs of age, married to Tom, and they have three young children, including a set of twin boys! Dana has worked in our parish office and has been an incredible blessing to us as one of our wedding coordinators. This news of the lymphoma is overwhelming to her and her family.
I wanted you to know that we prayed for Dana at our 10 am Sunday Mass today. We brought up her family and others for the laying on of hands, as part of the Church’s Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick. As she came forward, I shared your own story and when we prayed with Dana, I asked her to hold the photograph of you and your family, so that we could also pray for you. It was a touching and grace-filled moment during our Sunday Eucharist.
My prayers continue for you, and now for Dana, who begins this journey of faith as well. Our RCIA group continues to end their sessions each Monday with a prayer for you, while seeking the intercession of Fr. Isaac Thomas Hecker, the founder of the Paulist Fathers.
Hugs for you and yours…
Fr. Joe – in Knoxville, TN
Rev. Joseph A. Ciccone, CSP
Immaculate Conception Church
BEAM Analysis
Tom –
I am proud of your drive to find the most effective cure and staying on top of all decisions. We love you and continue to pray for your strength and a complete recovery.
Love,
Bobby and Ashley
Bobby Ryan
SVP, Business Development
ApolloMD Emergency Physician Services
(no subject)
Tommy,
Our church has been praying for you as have several prayer groups here in Mississippi. Reading the messages on your blog it looks like you and your family are absolutely covered up with angels standing guard over ya’ll. I am going to add Fr. Issac, the founder of the Paulists to my prayer warrior list too. I have always been a big fan of Paulists and their ministry. Getting you well while helping him move closer to sainthood sounds like a good plan to me. When you are driving home, remember we are right off I-20, just north of Jackson, MS if you and your Dad need a rest stop. I will get the guest room ready just in case. Your mom has our phone number. Love, Molly and Kevin
Prayers being answered…
Hello Tommy,
I was very happy to read your posts that stem cell collections have gone well, you have good counts, and that you’ve chosen best treatment for you.
You are a model of courage (and of organization
Take care and looking forward to seeing you sometime when your back with that cool Dominican Republic hat I gave you
Take care Tommy! I continue to pray to our Savior for your complete and permanent recovery, and strength to you, Linda, and your children.
P.S. Call me if you need help around your house or need me to pick up groceries, etc. for you !
Jason E. Dimm
Keep It Going!
It’s been almost a month since we saw you in Atlanta and all appears to be going like clockwork. Thanks so much for the updates! Prayers are coming from my family, Christ Renews His Parish #58, and our bible study group. May God’s blessings continue to shower you through the next phase of your treatment. GO COLTS! The Indiana Hansens
Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer Romans 12:12
Fellow TNT member
Hey Tommy. My name is Monica – I run with Danny and Amy on Saturday mornings with Team in Training. You are amazing – going to work with your mask on! How’d you drink your coffee??
Anyway, just wanted to say Hi and know you are in my prayers.
Monica Hardin
Prayers For Safe Journey
Hello Tommy and Linda,
My prayers are with you both as you soon make long drive to Houston.
Tommy, I’m very proud of your continued upbeat attitude and I pray for your strength during the difficult high-dose chemo treatments,but when dust settles, I know your going to be just fine !
As always, I’m here for you and your entire family, and even if we don’t see each other for awhile, I’m with you in spirit.
In Christ,
Jason
Hi
Hi Tommy,
I’m Jason’s friend and he has shared your story with
me. I just want to let you know that I will keep you
and your family in my prayers for a healthy and speedy
recovery. Stay strong and positive….. from what I’ve
been told you sound like an amazing individual.
Love,
Rossana
Rosi
With You In Spirit
Hello Tommy,
Thanks for keeping us updated on your website; you have the best abilities to explain the complex !
You(and family) are in my twice daily prayers for a speedy and full and complete recovery.
Take care and enjoy the Super Bowl too !
Jason E. Dimm
You’re almost there!
Just checking in..wonderful to see how positive things are going. So glad that Linda is there with you. Will send you a Super Bowl Champion sweatshirt(wait you’re in Houston), maybe a T-shirt would be better!..In Indiana we could use a fleece. It was -4 this am! Brr! You’re in our prayers always! The IN Hansens-YEA COLTS!!
Mary
Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer Romans 12:12
Courage and Sense-Of-Humor
Buenos dias Tommy !
Just read your post and your picture is next to the word “Courage” in the dictionary !
Your sense-of-humor comes thru too !
As always, praying for you daily, especially in front of my “Tommy Shrine” (Your family Christmas photo, rosary, small statue La Virgen De Guadalupe).
I’m here for you man !
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Hi Tommy
Just catching up with your progress and sending you prayers for this big week and month. Press on with lots of love from your cousins.
Thinking of you and sending you strength, which is in no short supply down there at MD Anderson! I’ll send you some gentle hopeful music soon for recovery days.
Take good care-
Donna
From up north
Tommy, Linda, Alex, Austin and Maddie,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if there is anything you need. I hope to see you all soon.
Lots of love,
Jen Ryan
Another well wish from up north
Dear Tommy, Linda, and kids,
Just wanted you to know that we are putting extra energy into our well
wishes for all of you this week, and Tommy in particular. Tommy, I am
in awe of your strength, attitude, and spirit…keep it up!
Love and prayers,
Cousin Michelle and Rick (who you haven’t yet met but who is still
thinking of you and channeling his best to you!)
A Smile For Tommy!
Subject: John Madden – Hotline to God
John Madden was in San Diego to announce a football game one weekend when
he noticed a special telephone near the Charger bench. He asked Rivers what
it was used for and was told it was a hotline to God. John asked if he could
use it. Rivers replied, “Sure, but it will cost you $200.” John scratched his head,
then thought, what the heck, I could use some help picking games. He pulled out
his wallet and paid $200. John’s picks were perfect that week.
The next week John was in New England when he noticed that same kind of
phone on the Patriots bench. He asked what the telephone was for and Tom
Brady told him, “It’s a hotline to God. If you want to use it, it will
cost you $500.”Recalling last week, John pulled out his wallet and made the
call. John’s picks were perfect again that week.
The next weekend John was in Indianapolis when he noticed the same kind of
telephone by the Colts bench. He asked Peyton Manning , “Is that the hotline
to God?” Peyton said, “Yes, and if you want to use it, it will cost you 35 cents.”
John looked incredulously at Manning and said, “Wait a second, I just paid $200
in San Diego and $500 in New England to use the same phone to God! Why
do the Colts only charge 35 cents?” Peyton looked at John and replied,
“Because in Indianapolis , it’s a local call.”
Congratulations, COLTS !
Love,
Mom Melear
Hi Tommy – It’s cousin Colleen from PA
Dear Tommy,
I’m sorry you have to endure more harsh treatments, but I wanted to let you know that there is definite hope for this treatment. My husband Warren’s oldest brother, Paul, was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma 4 years ago. He underwent the stem cell transplant 3 years ago and has been clean since. Like you, when Warren and his other siblings got tested for compatability with Paul, none of them matched up well Paul, but two of them were a perfect match for each other.
Know that you and your family will be in our prayers for a successful treatment and fast recovery.
Love, Colleen & Warren Grossenbacher
Complete Admiration
Hello Tommy,
I join others on your message board to express complete admiration for your attitude/hard work during this very tough time.
Know I pray twice daily for you and perform sign of the cross in front of your picture each morning.
Take care Tommy,
Jason
Jason E. Dimm, Developer I, AT&T
eCommerce/Payments-QuickPay, AutoPay, WEDAT
Prayers, Thoughts, & Support
Tommy, Linda, Alex, Madeline, & Austin~
Sorry to hear about your HD coming back Tommy, we want you guys
to know that you’re in our thoughts & prayers each day. At our CSA
reunion this past summer we all talked about where life has taken us
since Clemson, …guess this is another chapter, one that with God’s
comfort, strength, healing, and guidance you will all finish with flying
colors! The power of faith and prayer is an awesome one, we hope you
can feel & accept all that is being sent your way:o)
You & Linda have done an impressive & inspiring job in researching
your options! I think you can be assured that you have made a sound
decision in your treatment plan. You have both used the gifts God has
given you wisely, and I am sure you will continue to do so.
Take care and know that we’re pulling for ya’ll from Nebraska and beyond!!
Much Love, Blessings, & Hugs to all of you:o)
~Becky, Tom, Charlotte, & Eli Schuerman
Praying for you
Hi Tommy, Linda:
Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Wishing you a speedy recovery.
With love, Mr. & Mrs. J
I read your blog and I know the Lord will help you Dear Tommy,
I have always thought you were a wonderful and talented guy. I read your blog and could not imagine how difficult the pain could be until I read it. My heart goes out to you and your family but I know the Lord will be glorified by the healing that we will all witness in your life and this is our prayer. Thank you for being such a witness to us all though your friendship and love of family.
Merry Christmas,
Joseph M. Beckert
Senior Financial Advisor, CFM, CFP ®
Vice President
Wealth Management Advisor
Message
Tommy and Linda,
I leave tomorrow for Seattle and a couple of weeks with my brother and his family. I didn’t want to get too distracted with my own Christmas without letting you know I’ll be carrying you and your struggles with me and including them in my prayers and Masses at Christmas. This was a tough year for you, facing another round of serious illness. But you are handling it so competently and so optimistically. Those qualities seem to be serving you well. Add to them the grace of God, and you will come through this fine.
One of the real highlights of the past year for me was that time of reunion in Clemson. I’m so grateful you and your children were able to be there. As I read through the messages being sent to you, I see how genuine is the care for one another that is felt among our old CSA group. There is a deep and wonderful goodness that I could see in each of you. It was particularly inspiring to see how you are all working to pass that goodness and your faith on to your children. It gives me such great hope for the future and renews my sense of the importance of our work with college students.
May the promise of this season, the peace and joy of Christ, continue to fill your hearts as you move through the coming days. I send my blessings and prayers for your complete healing in the New Year.
With you in prayer, Fr. Steve Bossi, CSP
Thinking of you and your family!
Tommy,
My family is all thinking of you! We all love you and hope you get well soon. I know all the family up here has been thinking and praying for you and your family. You beat this once we know you can do it again. Thanks for keeping us all up to date on your treatments and how you are feeling. If you or your family need anything, please let us know.
We look forward to the update that lets us know you healthy, happy and cancer free!
Love,
Tanya, Vinny, Anthony, Sammy!
(no subject)
Tommy and Linda,
Hello from Mississippi. Just want you to know that we have you and your families on a lot of prayer lists over here. I know that you will be experiencing God’s loving presence in amazing ways. We will keep checking on you by way of your blog.
Love, Molly and Kevin McCarthy
You’re in our prayers Tommy and all the Gerorgia Ryans.
You are all in our prayers. So sorry you have to take on this fight again Tommy. As Donna mentioned earlier – our Christmas blessing was dedicated to your recovery. I have been reading the blog and keeping tabs on your progress. You are certainly in good hands. I work with many physcists from MD Anderson. Have one with us this week. If you ever have any questions concerning radiation – don;t hesitate to give a call or email .
Wish we were close enough to do be helpful in some way. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
Love,
Jeanine ,Charlie, Gregory and Heather.
God’s Peace Be With You
Tommy, Linda, and family,
Rob and I are so sorry to hear of both the first episode and now this recurrence but are deeply encouraged to hear and read how you are a living witness of the bountiful gifts of our Sweet Holy Spirit. Continue to draw strength from God’s grace and seek Him for comfort, courage, and hope. Your faith is shining like a city on a hilltop!
Know that the Palazzo family is praying fervently for your complete recovery and that the entire community of Transfiguration Catholic Church in Marietta is raising you up in prayer through the intentions in our 24/7 Eucharistic Adoration chapel. The Sisters of Charity of Our Lady of Mercy from Charleston (where Lynn’s aunt is a Sister) are also praying for you.
May God’s choicest blessings be with you through your treatment.
Rob and Lynn Palazzo
with Abby, Carol Ann, and Mary Kate
Safe Journey, Tommy!
Today you and Linda are going to Houston! The thoughts and prayers of ALL of us will be “the wind beneath your wings.” God speed and remember “We can’t trust and worry at the same time!”
Love,
Mom Melear
Dig the Do!
Tommy – wanted to let you know I have a thing for bald guys – so Linda better watch out!
We are glad to hear that you have made it to Houston and you are well on your way to treatment and before you know it – recovery. We pray for you, Linda, Alex, Austin and Maddie often.
A verse for today:
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
With love and prayers, Chris, Gale & Rachel Weeks
Even more than thoughts….
Tommy and Linda,
This very week, for the first time since our little CSA reunion in June, I was back in Clemson on Monday to make a sales call. As I drove past the Student Center I was remembering our little speeches that Fr. Steve made each of us come up with that last night we were together, and I thought about how Tommy told us of the experience of 13 years ago. This evening (Friday) I just landed in Dallas/Fort Worth for a business meeting on Monday, and Gretchen told me over the phone of the current situation and that you are in Houston. My thoughts and more are with both of you.
Rob Pfeiffer CFPPS
Senior Account Manager
Charlotte, Triad, Western Carolinas
Tommy, Linda and family
I just got word from Kate McManus-Furukawa about the recurrence of the cancer. I had been thinking of you recently and remembering how you had gone through that difficult time after your marriage. Please know of my intense and fervent prayer support. May God surround you all with love and provide the direction of how to explore available therapies that may be options. We’re going to storm heaven for you! We cling to our faith, which is our hope in the God who saves us, restores us, and fills us with inner joy!
With much love, fond memories, and intense prayers…. Fr. Joe
Rev. Joseph A. Ciccone, CSP
Immaculate Conception Church
You’re in Our Prayers
Hi- This morning, before I checked my email, I was thinking about our pending post-Christmas trip to GA and I thought, “I need to make sure to get in touch with the Ryans”…..maybe we will have to reroute to Houston! My prayers are with all of you as I can’t imagine the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that all of you are feeling. I am sponsoring an RCIA candidate and in class today our priest discussed how the rosary is a beautiful way to say something when your don’t know what to say. I will be praying my rosary everyday for you all. Please let me know if there is anything we can do from IN.
Mary Defenbaugh(Hansen)
Chuck Hansen
Carl, Evan, & Jack
Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer Romans 12:12
Message for Tommy
Tommy, our family is praying hard for you and your family. I believe God will be pouring His grace and His peace on you and your family as you progress through this journey. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Blessings,
Jose & Liliana Rodriguez
Prayer group
Hey Tommy, read your latest and hope all continues to go well and God speaks clearly and with wisdom to you and to the doctors. Just a brief note that at least 20 men from my group in our church are praying for you. Take care and get well.
And while I admit I often do not have the wisdom to see His greater plan I cling to this verse:
Romans 8:28: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Bone marrow donor wannabe
Tommy, Linda, Alex, Madeline, and Austin
Man, this news is hard to hear. We got the message from Katie Furukawa
earlier this week.
At the CSA reunion this summer, you were telling us about the HD from so
long ago and how at peace you were with whatever God decides for you.
I was strengthened in my faith to see the strength of yours.
Of course you, Linda and the kids are in our prayers. We are praying
strong prayers for you!
I know the future weeks are going to be very challenging, but you are up
to the task, Tommy. You have so many folks rooting you on.
Hey, Tommy, I hope they call me to donate bone marrow for you! I’ve been
on the NBMD list for about 15 years now.
Let the kids know that Becky’s praying for them too, will you? And she
said good luck to them in their Science Olympiad events. She’ll be doing
SO again this year.
We’ll be praying for a donor with a perfect match to be found quickly.
In Christ,
Karen & Pete Gamble
Raleigh, NC
Friend of Tim Coalson
Hi Tommy,
I go to church with Tim Coalson. I too have Hodgkin’s! I was diagnosed in early October and have started ABVD treatment, which I think you did some years ago! Your WEB page was very informative, especially since I have Hodgkin’s! You are and will continue to be in my prayers.
Bud Alsup
keep those positive emotions on high
Hi Tommy,
I have come to know about you through Joanne Melear and I believe Joanne is a subscriber to my own newsletter called Achieve Your Goals.
At this time Tommy it is more important than ever to keep focused on what you want to experience, and become connected to what it feels like to be completely faithful, joyful, loving and vibrant.
with warmth,
Peggy McColl
Praying for you
Tommy,
Just want you to know that there is another voice in the chorus of prayers reaching out for you. Keep up the fight by battling with information. From reading your entries, you and Linda are doing an incredible job of it! And in the end, I’m thankful God gave you peace with your current decision for treatment.
I’m glad you were able to enjoy Thanksgiving and reconnect with Linda’s family. I drive through Orangeburg every other weekend on the way to Charleston where my fiancee lives! I don’t think I’ve told you all that I am recently engaged. The wedding will be March 17th in Charleston – then Natalie will move to Atlanta. I’m hoping you’ll be done with your AutoSCT by then!!
God bless,
Jason Jones
Hi
Hi Tommy -
I am a friend of your sister in law, Amy and have been reading your Blog. I have been in remission from HD for almost 4 years now so your story hits pretty close to home for me. I just wanted to offer my support as well as let you know about a fabulous resource I found during my battle. It’s a Hodgkin’s Disease email list serv. If you’re interested, you can subscribe at www.hodgkinsdisease.org. I found it to be truly invaluable……….getting information from people who are going through the same thing is sometimes more valuable than the information you get from doctors. I second the nod to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, the staff was absolutely amazing and I now have a great friend working there.
Good luck to you and I’ll be thinking of you!
Heather Cates
A Successful Journey
Hi Tommy and Family,
Aunt Paula and I and all of our family have you in our prayers and know that your fight will be successful!
As you know we are old hands at fighting different forms of cancer and we respect what a resourceful enemy we are all fighting.
We’ve just returned from Willcox, AZ, helping Paula’s brother, Greg, prepare for bladder cancer treatment; he faces additional surgery within a month and will most likely loose his bladder and prostate gland. Greg is a trooper and is anxious to have the surgery over with so that he may get back to his Arizona fish farm.
I’ve just received your Blog and am fully supportive of the treatment choices you and Linda have made.
M.D. Anderson Hospital sounds like quite the place, and the staff is showing the confidence necesary to beat this disease out of your system once and for all.
Keep in touch, your Dad and Mom let us know of your progress and how well the three younsters are doing at home.
Love,
Aunt Paula and Uncle Phil
good luck Tommy from your northern cousins
Hi Tommy,
Got your blog from your Dad. I’m sorry you have this ahead of you but encouraged the
way you are taking it on. One day at a time. You are in my thoughts and prayers, my
whole office is pulling for you, and my circle of friends are praying for your strength during
treatment and return to your beautiful family. Anything we can do for you up here, you got it.
Brian and Jeanine and their families send best wishes and we will dedicate our Christmas
dinner blessing to you. Take it easy during the holidays and your upcoming adventure.
You have done and continue to do all the hard work for research and recovery. We fully
support you and send you a huge hug from Boston.
Lots of love,
Donna
Thanksgiving
As Thanksgiving approaches and I ponder the blessings poured out on me I think of you as you embark on your fight. It will be a tough journey but I have no question that you will move through it with the blessings and courage poured out by the Holy Spirit. Your Faith is an example to all who know you and a blessing to each of us who have the honor to have you as a mentor. You have a special place in my heart for which I will be thanking God this Thanksgiving Day. May the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you and your family this holiday and all the days of your life.
Warmly,
Rob Bohm <
(http://www.bohm.us)
Praying!
Hi Tommy,
You don’t know me, but I am a friend of Danny and Amy. I will be praying not only for you but for your doctors and all those who will help you in the fight against HL. May you have peace and courage and, most of all, healing!
Blessings,
Sr. Joy Payton
Kick Off of Team In Training!
Dear Tommy,
There ARE NO coincidences, so I think it is really neat that the Kick Off of Team in Training was the same day as the Kick Off of your Adventure in Houston! Our journey will coincide with yours. Our energy will become YOUR energy. Together, as a team, we will travel this journey together.
Thank you for keeping us posted, through this blog. It will become a treasure for your loving family, friends and employees.
I hope you and Linda had a wonderful Wednesday!
Love,
Mom Melear
Love and Prayers
Dear Tommy & Linda,
Please know that Dave and I are praying with you during this time. I know that your strength and faith in God and your love for each other will grow ever stronger and guide you through this difficult journey. Prayer is a very powerful medicine. We will surround you with as much as we can. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you or your family here on the homefront.
All of our love and peace,
Kate (McManus) & Dave Furukawa, Atlanta
Message to Tommy and family
Dear Tommy, Linda, Alex, Austin and Madeline,
You know our prayers and hearts are with you. This is going to be a challenging fight for you and all of us, but we are up to it.
We will work through all of this with the help of family, friends, prayer and our faith.
All our love, Mom and Dad xxoo
Hey
Tommy, I’m very sorry to hear about your condition. You are one of the most determined and strong willed people I know so I know you’ll fight this thing with the same determination and strength. Give it hell and know that we are all thinking about you daily. Let us know if there’s anything we can do to help you or your family.
Best Wishes,
Russell Groover
Praying with you
Tommy,
My dad was diagnosed with Lymphoma about 2 months ago and is in the middle of his number 2 of 6 chemo treatments.
Lynnea and I as well as Roswell Community church will be praying for you.
If there is anything we can do let me know
Keith Landers
Message of Hope and Prayer
Dear Tommy, Linda, Alex, Austin and Madeline,
At times like this we feel so helpless. This website is a terrific idea. It will allow us to keep up with your progress. All of you, the entire family is such an inspiration to all of us. Your strength, courage and hopeful spirit speak volumes about your faith in God and in yourselves. Mark and I are praying daily for all of you. Please know that we love you and would be happy to do anything for you all. Stay the course, prayers and God are with you. Love, Mark and Tina Harding
Christina Harding
Thoughts and Prayers
I am sorry to hear of what you have been thru and are going thru. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be on you and your family. May God’s peace, strength, and healing be poured out upon you.
Brian Cooper
Get well Tommy
Tommy,
Please know that my family and I will pray for you and your sweet family through this time. We will pray specifically for God’s healing touch on your body, for God to give the doctors the wisdom that they need to correctly diagnose and fix your body, and that your sweet family would be overwhelmed by love and care from those that are close to them. Love you buddy and get well soon.
Anthony, Kristie, Ezra, Darien and Brody Yott
We’re here for you.
Tommy…I just wanted you to know that Mark ends every one of our blessings with, “God, take good care of little Tommy Ryan.”
Amen,
Ginny McNabb
Good luck today
Tommy and Linda,
I hope that the first day in Houston went well. I look forward to hearing how the day went.
Talk to you later,
Danny.
Buenos Dias!!
Tommy,
I hope that you get great news from the specialists in Houston, and that everything comes out in a positive outcome for you.
You and your family are in my prayers. Hope to hear good news from you soon.
Ciacito,
Sol
Message for Tommy
Hey Tommy. You and your family will be in my family’s prayers. I have seen miracles and will be praying for a miraculous recovery for you. Also, we will be praying for strength for you, Linda, and your children. I can only imagine how difficult this time is for you and pray God will be with you in it and through it.
Yours,
Alan
